New Story of a Scammer from KSDK Channel 5

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Happy Halloween!!!!!!!!!!!

A wonderful lady sharing her story with me.

I received this message in my facebook messenger and I wanted to share it.

 

Hi Patsy. I am so thankful that I googled Paul Lab and came across your blog. I suspected him right from the start. I'm wondering if you also were contacted by a Stewart Clisby supposedly in the army in Poland and to be retired in 3 months. He's and incredible piece of work as well. I am so glad that you are getting the message out to vulnerable women. thank you so much. I'll attach a photo of Stewart Clisby.

 

 

My response back:

 

Hi Suzanne - so nice to meet you. No He doesn't look familiar. I am surprised because I've become a magnet for these guys. LOL!!!

 

Her response:

 

Nice to meet you as well Patsy. Then you probably will meet him. He was madly in love by the third email. Very long romantic messages and as much as I would tell him that I was uncomfortable with that sort of talk from a stranger he just persisted. Finally stopped all contact with me when I told him that he shouldn't speak to women in a way that he wouldn't want a strange man to communicate with his daughter if he had one. I've learned now that when someone contacts me and so very quickly removes his profile from POF that it is a red flag. Thank goodness my gut instinct rules me. Have a good evening.

 

Here are the pictures she sent me:

 

I love hearing from others and reading their stories.  It's nice to know I'm not the only one.  

 

He told me I was beautiful!!!! LOL!!!!!!

Today's contestant is Sanders James.  Yes that's how he has his name.  LOL!!

 

I really didn't give him a chance but as usual the grammar was terrible so I slammed him down right away. 

Now this guy was from Twitter.  Now I think I said this before, they are messaging me on twitter and Instagram.  I don't think I need the dating site anymore.  LOL!!!

I received a thank you today!!!

I am so touched.  I received a facebook messenger message from a lady who ready my blog and thanked me for it.  I have copied her messages to me below. 

Hello Patsy - Thank you very much for your Stargate Lady blog. I was contacted by Paul Laub today, and found your story soon thereafter. My reply to his email was to copy-and-paste his oil rigger story to you. I am certain he will be blocking me on POF shortly, but his name on that site is now JA97230. Also, the picture I have attached is the one from his POF page. In any case, I appreciated reading through your blog! Smiles

 

My response: 

Thank you so much I’m so glad that my blog was able to help someone would it be OK if I just copied your story I won’t use your name but I just want to Your story so that people can see it at that I help people

 

Her response:

Actually, "Paul" and I did exchange a few more emails before he finally blocked me. Something is really wrong....either he isn't English as a first language, or maybe just not very bright - he couldn't write in complete sentences. At one point he started talking about himself in the third person. He was hurt/upset/angry with me for "not being a real person". He assumed I was someone he had emailed before, because he recognized his own words. At first denied, then quickly admitted he had written them. Anyway, I think I would have figured things out quickly on my own, but I am glad I found your blog.

 

Thank you so much for writing me.  I am glad to hear I am helping.  :)

Today's most crazy story I've told and heard!!!!!!!!!! And he's not in the Army!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, this has to be the most crazy story.  Sit down and grab a drink cause here we go.

 

So all my friends know my love of Chris Evans and Chris Pratt (my cougar crushes).  I follow them on twitter.  Well a couple of weeks ago Chris Evans started following me on twitter.  (Of course we know this isn't the real Chris Evans), but I played along.  He mentioned he saw that am a big fans of his.  In the beginning I told him I didn't believe him but then I decided to play along.  So for a couple of weeks it's been boring exchange.  So this morning I get a message from him and now I would like to share it with you.  This one is a riot.

 

 

I was laughing so hard at this.  So he would give me 20% of his $20,000,000.  Really?  Did he think I would fall for that?  I guess I could have played along further just to see but I didn't and shut him down.

 

Here are the 2 profiles on Twitter.  You can see the difference where I mentioned it in my message above.

I don't really need to be on the dating site to get scammers.  I've got them on Twitter and Instagram now.  Since I joined both of those to advertise my blog, they are coming out of the word work.

 

Another fun day in the life of the Stargatelady. 

Today's contestant on "Try to fool the Stargatelady"

Well this one isn't in the army but works on an oil rig.  Interesting.  But the same sad story.  LOL!!!

 

Take a gander.

From: Paul Lab [mailto:puallab1960@gmail.com]
Sent: Friday, October 6, 2017 4:33 AM

Hi Pasty

How are you doing? Thanks for the note and response to my email and i would love to know you better. I believe this could be the beginning of a good relationship. My name is Paul,  I work as a Petroleum Geologist. I consult and act as a sub contractor with Fortune 100 companies as a project Supervisor/Contractor in Rigs offshore.. I am currently working at a Rigs offshore in NY and I am retiring in 3months time. I have a son and also a brother. parents both late.I am  widower. Story for another day. :) 

Let me know what you want to know about me and we can kick start. 

I hope to hear from you soon and hope you are having a good and productive day.

Paul 

 

On Fri, Oct 6, 2017 at 7:24 AM, Patsy <stargatelady99@att.net> wrote:

Hi Paul,

So happy to hear from you.  Oh by the way it’s Patsy not Pasty.  😉

I am divorced and have a daughter.  Been divorced since 2005.  Happily divorced.  😊

I am secretary and love my job.

I had no idea we had oil rigs off of New York.  I didn’t know there was oil up there.

Patsy

 

Paul Lab [mailto:puallab1960@gmail.com]
Sent: Saturday, October 7, 2017 2:26 PM

Hello Patsy  hope i got this right  lol

Thanks for the email, So let's get started and let me shared more insight about me, so you truly know where I am coming from and where I am going to. I hope this is a start to something wonderful. 

My Business and Line of Work:

I work as a Petroleum Geologist, And I have a tour round the world for the past 39years doing this business. It is stressful and hectic but at the same time very rewarding.  I am currently working at a Rigs offshore in NY. I am here close to the Atlantic coast, northern side NY. The reception sometimes is very bad and texting works better for me. as soon as i am done over here which should be about 6weeks. then that would be my last deal as I call it quit and enjoy the rest of my life with that special woman who will be my best friend and well as a lover. Hope that woman is you. :).  I was Born Nov 20 1960

Where would I want to settle down?:

Well, I remain opened to my partners' suggestion, and we would have to seat and talk that over. I am very mobile and would go wherever would be good and excellent for both I and that extraordinary woman. When I am not working, I stay more in NY. I do have a house in Woodside NY, and also I have a home in Whittier CA. So I am very mobile.

Little about my Family:

I lost my dad and mom alongside my sister in a car accident 2012. I do have a Brother Fredy. One of the sweetest men I know and he is my best friend, although he has some medical issue. We both are very close, and he is so kind and sweet. I have a Son Smith, and he is 22, and he is in Wales studying. Lost my wife to cancer, sad story and don’t want to talk about it. I am glad i was able to heal from it. it wasn’t easy but i was able to.

Where I am From:

My Dad emigrated from Slovakia but, lived in Wales and my Mom from the USA. They meant when my Mom went to school in Wales and later relocated to State. My dad was in the line of Mining as well, and he thought me the business or rather I would say I learned a little bit from him, but unfortunately i didn’t followed in his line. I was five years old when my dad got a big contract in Germany, so, that required we all moved to Germany and we stayed there until I was 16 and later moved to wales. When I was 21, we moved back to Germany, then Slovakia  and then transferred to the State. So it was an on and off thing 

So your Turn.

Every day can be a beautiful day, Just take a look around you and think about all of the wonderful things you have to be thankful for...the sunshine, roses, laughter, close friends, family, music, and beautiful dreams, The storm is never half as bad as it seems, Don’t let the rain ruin your day, When the dark clouds move in just smile, because the good times are on the way and you have Paul to talk to :). I am attaching some pic with this email for you. 

Have a lovely day as I await your response.

Paul

  

Hi Paul! 

 Glad you hear from you.  I have questions and some stuff for you.

 

1. Are you really who you say you are?
2. Are you really an oil person?
3. Is your family really dead?
4. Where are you really from?
5. Who are you really?
6. I don’t have money so if you ask me to send you money I won’t.

 

 

Perhaps I was a bit harsh.  Nah!!!!!!!!!!   Now here is the picture he was using and you know where this goes by now, right?

 

The Liars walls of disdain!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

Multiple profiles - same idiot

Below is a picture of a guy from POF that I posted in June.  He constantly hits the Meet Me button on many women and I am one of them.  He continues to create more and more profiles with the same pictures.

Well today out of the blue I got and message from him and once again I blocked him.  But he will just create another one.

It's a good thing I am thick skinner and stuff like this just makes me laugh.

 

He needs a name.  Any suggestions?  Keep it clean.  :)

 

Here is his pictures from my June post.

 

 

As always DON'T SEND MONEY TO SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW!!!